what is sexy?
16 Jan 2010 Leave a Comment
in lessons, Pleasure, WarriorSage Tags: Burlesque, lessons, Love, passion
I have started to watch the movie Coyote Ugly, I’ve not seen it before. But the first few minuites got me thinking about confidence and being sexy. There’s a main character who is leaving her small town to move to NY city. She is very shy and her friends threw her a party. They pulled her up on stage and she was so scared and nervous.
However now more into the movie, the main character has just gone into the Coyote Ugly bar, she is so timid. But the bar servers have so much confidence and they know it. As the movie goes on, the main character has been building up er confidence and now can get on the bar and sing.
Dianna teaches us in Burlesque about being confident. How it’s the confidence in a woman that makes her sexy. The clothes she wears and the make-up on her face helps. But I think the sexy clothes and make-up can just be extra help. The way I walk and carry myself in the world with more confidence. I can walk down town Calgary wearing my jeans and a t-shirt and still feel sexy and confident. Just as much as I can wear a sexy dress and make-up and feel confident.
That is what both WarriorSage and Burlesquercise has been teaching me. To grow my confidence in myself to feel sexy is to feel confident in myself.
I’ve also been working on other areas of myself, I got back to the gym finally this week, and have chosen to continue to eat healthy and become more active. As I continue to drop dress/pant sizes I become even more confident.
Also working on giving myself more love. By nurturing myself and pausing and telling myself that I love my self because…. or I am proud of myself because…. and why I respect myself is….. It helps with boosting my own self appreciation.
Women….why do you feel sexy, or what about yourself is sexy?
Men….what are you passionate about, what gets you up in the morning to feel that drive?
Awakening Goddess
